When your old life no longer fits, but the new one isn't clear
On learning to stand without answers
There is a particular kind of vulnerability that comes when the old life no longer fits — but the new one has not yet revealed itself.
You know too much to go back.
You feel too much to pretend.
But you cannot yet name where you are headed.
This can be frightening.
We are taught that clarity should come quickly.
That knowing what’s next is proof of wisdom.
But emergence does not require answers.
It requires presence.
Standing without certainty is not weakness.
It is trust in its earliest form.
You are learning how to stand in truth without scaffolding.
That is not nothing.
That is everything beginning.
